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You Have Waited Long Enough to be Happy
Don't Change! Be Who You REALLY Are!
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"Men and Women are
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think they have to "Change" in order to find happiness. I say, "Not
true!" We DON'T need to "change." We need to "Unchange,"
to be who we Really are, which means that first we must find out who we
REALLY are. Something very unfortunate
happened to America during our Industrial Revolution which set in motion
some negative influences which have had damaging effects on the
relationships between men and woman even since. We all have paid a huge
price which has resulted in the breakdown of families and society at
large. Because of that profoundly negative event in our
cultural history, we have been changed in very painful ways. Because of that, most of us
have no idea of who we really are, and, because of that, most of us are in painas
few of us are able to attain the happiness and fulfillment which rightfully belongs to us.
The whole idea is to UNCHANGE the negative effects of what was never our choice in the first place and go back to who we REALLY are. Cultural lies have made us "Change" from "who we really are" and reshape ourselves to conform to what is so much a violation to our needs that we are in pain in ways we cannot identify and in places within us which hurt so much that, in our attempts to relieve the pain, we have all developed attitudes and behaviors which take us AWAY from happiness and fulfillment instead of "toward" it. Who we really are is buried deeply inside behind many thick walls. We CANNOT live successfully as "who we are not," so we must go through a process of "rediscovery" to find "who we really are," our "Personal-Self," and then catch up on the education which was denied us.
Culturally, we were denied the LANGUAGE and the SOCIAL SKILLS which we need to get along compatibly with ourselves and others. Women are NOT from "Venus" and men are NOT from "Mars." There is a very logical reason why we all ended up dysfunctionally and disharmoniously at odds with each other as genders. It's not supposed to be this way by Natural Law. We are supposed to speak the SAME language and understand one another perfectly so that we can work smoothly and cooperatively as partners in life bringing one successful generation after another into this world to keep our species fit enough to keep surviving along with our culture in America. Look at the destruction of the American Family and the break-down of our cultural values in America. Look at crime and drugs and the fact that, with all the experts trying so hard to improve things, they are only getting worse. Ask yourself if maybe someone hasn't missed the answers somewhere along the line.
Well, in my research, I believe that I have found the answers, and I have been teaching as many people as I can in private sessions and in groups. I have done it long enough to be convinced of the effective help I have been able to offer with this educational program which I have developed. None of us is a "bad guy" or at "fault." We are all victims of what happened way before we were even born. We don't need to CHANGE in the traditional sense to find happiness. We have to LEARN what happened and what to do about it. We can CHANGE what we know and believe and then our attitudes will automatically change.. and with attitude changes, automatically come changes in behavior. But the final goal is to "UNCHANGE" us from the "who we are not" and help to restore us back to who we really are and then pick up from there by the education of personal and cultural language, coping skills, and social skills so we can be "who we really" are with ourselves and others. Only then can we find the love and intimacy and touching, the denial of which has starved us, and which we are craving so we can be happy and fulfilled in life.
Through my vast personal and professional experience, and the very exciting research I have accomplished, I have developed unique educational models to teach and give the tools which you will not find elsewhere. I have no need to write my book; I prefer to teach and allow the book to remain alive and growing as I teach and those I teach share their knowledge with others.
No matter what your problems or goals, I am very confident that I have answers and strategies to help you quickly and concisely find your personal happiness and success in life. Please call me and we can arrange a private one-on-one session, couples or family session, group, workshop, or seminar for both personal empowerment or empowerment in the workplace.
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The Healing Process Begins as soon as you Put Your Feet on the Path...
Waste no more of your Life. The Puzzle was missing many pieces until now.
The Completed Puzzle Explains You and Me and All of Our Relationships
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